Well this was the first week that I heard serious complaining about the no spend challenge.
Emma was hilarious when she said "we had a good two months of this no spend challenge. Now I think it's time to be done. Let's order Chinese food."
And believe me I was feeling the same way! I was ready for Chinese food and not cooking too, but we didn't cave and had frozen pizzas instead.
Can you picture me with my head hung low and pouting? Because that's what I was looking like.
Thankfully I am realizing that when one of us is weak and ready to give up (usually me) then there is the other person to stay strong and diligent (usually Nick).
Valentine's Day was a bit hard with the no spend challenge.
We are not huge spenders for Valentine's Day. I've never gotten Diamond anything. I do usually get roses. But this year I knew I wouldn't be getting anything. Still there was this TINY part of my brain that was just wishing and hoping that he would come home with something that I would act upset he spent money for but secretly was delighted he brought home.
You know what I am talking about!
But he didn't buy anything. Well I take that back he did go to the store and bought crab and oysters to go with our beef tenderloin stay-in date meal.
However I had had the same thought of a little surf with our turf and bought lobster tails.
So it was a huge seafood feast.
Nick also came home with an old fashioned love letter.
It was my first one ever and it made me sob. Big, ugly tears, sob.
It was perfect. It helped me to realize that some of the most beautiful things in this world are free. They don't cost money, they aren't big and flashy, but instead are simple and true words that mean the most.
The days before Valentine's Day I was prepared that we wouldn't be buying the kids a ton of fun Valentine's stuff like we normally do.
I had purchased Emma's Valentine's Day gift last year before we started the no-spend challenge. So I purchased a small lego set for Calvin so he would have something soon.
To make their special day a bit more special we made some sweet treats with things that we already had at home so they didn't cost a lot of money.
We made cookies which was lots of fun! The kids took a cookie decorating class last year so I whipped up a batch of royal icing and we had fun decorating cookies for our friends and family (and for us, of course!)
We had fun breakfasts! For this I made toast and used a cookie cutter to carve out a heart from the center. I then put Peanut butter on the heart and strawberry jam around the outskirt of the toast. We had strawberry milk because strawberry milk makes everything better. And I love these napkins that I bought last year from Marshalls.
And of course we had fun lunches! The kids' favorite lunch is a muffin tin lunch. I bought these sweet 6 cup muffin tins from the Dollar Store, and then I put fun things in them! For this lunch I gave them strawberry flavored string cheese, vanilla yogurt with sprinkles, strawberrys, grape tomatoes, more strawberry milk, and some heart shaped sweet tarts.
I love giving them fun lunches, it really helps to break up the homeschool day and make things more exciting.
A special part of Valentine's Day was someone sending me a gift! I love colored pens and someone sent these to me with a sweet Homeschooling Momma card. I have no idea who sent these to me but it was just the sweetest thing! So if you are reading this and it was you, thank you!
All in all it was a great Valentine's Day and week.
It was really nice when it was all said and done to not have the guilt that I spent too much on the kids or spoiled them more than I should have. It was a great day and we loved spending time with one another which is the best part of Valentine's Day!
I hope you all had a great Valentine's week. Please let me know how you are doing on your own no-spend challenges.
Love to you all!
